The Next 25 Weeks
It's high time we got down to business, kids.
Hey there,
Iām here because of my parents.
I mean, weāre all here because of our parents, but I mean something deeperā
Iām in your inbox talking about self-care like Iām the scientist in Donāt Look Up because of my parents, both of whom are deceased.
They died bookending the pandemicāApril 18, 2020, and October 2, 2022āleaving me with lessons I canāt ignore.
š Their reality:
- My mother smoked a pack a day.
- My father was pickled drunk for decades.
- Neither moved their body.
- Neither took a break.
- Neither nurtured their spirit.
- Both were relentlessly unkind to themselves.
They survivedā¦until they couldnāt anymore. They were just 63 and 66.
š” What I learned:
I am so passionate about self-care because I know Iām not the only one whose parents never taught them how to take care of themselves.
And kids? They notice everything. Not just what we say and do, but what we donāt say and do.
šø Studies show that parental behaviors directly impact children's well-being. And beyond science, we can see it:
- Kids notice when we put ourselves last.
- They see when we overextend for systems that donāt serve us.
- They absorb the way we treat ourselves.
So, how do we start breaking these cycles?