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Mar 16, 2025

Hey there,

It’s been six months since The Sursie launched on September 22, 2024. Can you believe it?! It’s taken some time to find the right rhythm—for me and for you, dear reader—but we did it. 🎉

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🚀 If you implement even one step per quarter, your life will improve. Not just for a moment, but for the long haul.
🎁 Expect surprises! The word “sursie” means a small, unexpected gift, and I plan to delight you weekly with playlists, printables, pop culture chats, and more.

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🎥 Live calls with me & more

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