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Mar 16, 2025

Hey there,

It’s been six months since The Sursie launched on September 22, 2024. Can you believe it?! It’s taken some time to find the right rhythm—for me and for you, dear reader—but we did it. 🎉

Here’s what you can expect moving forward:
📬 A weekly newsletter packed with actionable self-care steps.
🚀 If you implement even one step per quarter, your life will improve. Not just for a moment, but for the long haul.
🎁 Expect surprises! The word “sursie” means a small, unexpected gift, and I plan to delight you weekly with playlists, printables, pop culture chats, and more.

🔒 Paid subscribers get access to:
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🌀 Wheel of the Year Guides
📖 Deep dives into self-care’s toughest parts
💪 Challenges (Next up: Tough Love Passive-Aggression Challenge!)
🎥 Live calls with me & more

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Thank you for being here. I’m on this planet to help you take real care of yourself, and you’re doing that. Legit warms my heart, bud. 💛

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