
This Retrograde Rocks. Use It For Your Own Good.
Understanding Venus Retrograde
Venus, the planet of love, relationships, beauty, and finances, goes retrograde approximately every 18 months. This celestial event is an invitation to slow down, reflect, and recalibrate areas of your life governed by Venus. Rather than fearing retrogrades, approach them as opportunities for deep introspectio...

The Tough Love Self-Care Challenge is Back!
In 2017, I had an idea: could I get 25 people to join me in a challenge about self-care—the real kind? Not the cute, Instagrammable version, but the kind that’s messy, unglamorous, and necessary.
Spoiler: it took off. Over the years, it grew, evolved, and by 2022, hundreds had completed it—some multiple times.
Now, it’s back for 2025.
So, what is the ...

Proverb by my boyfriend đź’«
He said this to me in 2022 when I was in a position to have some really tough conversations and own up to some things.
His main concern was not that I wouldn’t take accountability. It was that I would accept and shoulder blame that actually wasn’t mine.Â
It’s very important when we discuss accountability to include stopping at the edge of the cliff.
We can be tempted ...
The Sursie
